Master Your Mind. Deepen Your Connection. Build a Thriving Marriage.
At TAMA, we empower ambitious professionals and business owners to heal from within, master emotional patterns, and create lasting love. Our coaching blends Emotional Intelligence, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and Family Systems Engineering to foster wholeness, clarity, and real connection. Start your journey to attract and sustain the love you desire.
Our Impact
100+
Happy Clients
10+
Successful Program
6+
Different Countries
Meet the Founder
Fejiro Adaka, fondly known as MrzSparkles, is a sought-after Relationship & Emotional Intelligence Coach, Master NLP Practitioner, and an associate of the Institute of Family Engineering and Development (IFED). With over 100+ Singles and Couples coached, she’s on a mission to help people become whole, choose wisely, and build relationships that thrive.
With a dynamic blend of emotional intelligence, neuroscience-based tools, faith-based wisdom, and over 12 years of corporate experience, Fejiro guides high achievers to transform their inner world and their most intimate connections.
She’s the founder of The Ask MrzSparkles Academy (TAMA), a global movement transforming marriages and families, one heart at a time.
Fejiro is a Chartered Accountant, devoted wife to her Sparkles, and intentional mom of two boys. Her core belief: "Fix the marriage, fix the world."
How It Began
From my formative years, I didn’t realize that a successful marriage required strategic navigation. I believed love alone could sustain us into our 50th anniversary. But by year two, I was faced with a stark reality; marriage was far from the dreamy bliss I had imagined.
Life’s distractions, though genuine, created distance in our bond and intimacy. I saw I had embraced a flawed belief system and needed a mindset shift.
In the early years, I often cried, frustrated by unmet expectations and communication struggles with my husband. By 2014, though I was a self-proclaimed "lover girl," our dream of harmony seemed unreachable. We talked often, yet lacked true connection, affecting both marriage and personal well-being.
Through growth and wisdom, we embarked on a transformative journey and we’re still on this blissful path.
Marriage can bring stress, fatigue, and disappointment, but your story can change. That’s why I serve as a Relationship, EQ and Family Life Coach, to help build and sustain solid foundations for joy-filled marriages.
For four years, I’ve supported high-achieving professionals and seasoned couples globally, using emotional intelligence, scriptural wisdom, and science-backed methods rooted in empathy and respect.
My work helps clients gain self-awareness, master themselves, understand their partners, align with their values, and improve communication, building trust, resolving conflicts, and deepening intimacy.
